Tag: Feelings

The Vow my wife made to me!

The Vow my wife made to me!

Letter to Frank:

From The Catburgler…

Dr. Horrible, it’s been an interesting time getting to know you. In the beginning, you were shy and I couldn’t really read you. All I knew is that your very friendly. I couldn’t tell exactly what, but I knew there was something different about you. Over the course of the following months, I got to know you more and started to like you more. Like turned to love and love turned to deep and unconditional love and respect. I remember how unsure we both were then and how confident we are now. We have changed since we met and in the best ways. You lift me up when I’m down, you show me love and respect, your considerate and logical yet love having fun. Your adventurous. When we travel together, we share an insatiable appetite for culture, good food and history. Your quiet and yet enjoy dancing with me to good jazz. When we cook, it’s like we can read each other’s thoughts and create amazing dishes together. We truly bring out the best in each other. Our personalities may be different, our schedules may be really different but at the end of the day, we make time to spend with each other. We show appreciation and gratitude toward each other. We tackle any issue fiercely together. Being married to you will be an adventure; it will have ups and downs, but I know that at the end of the day, as long as we work together, we can handle anything and have fun with life along the way.

These are my promises to you as your wife:

  1. I promise to always love you.
  2. I promise to always dance with you.
  3. I promise to encourage laughter and adventure.
  4. I promise that whatever issue we face, we face together.
  5. I promise to always be the Catburgler to your Dr. Horrible (inside joke)
  6. just like you always are positive for me, I promise to lift you up when you are down and be a positive force for both of us.
  7. I will always be your adventure and cooking buddy.
  8. I promise Dr. Potato and Fig Newton will be encouraged to tolerate each other.
  9. I promise to regularly tell you how incredible you are.
  10. Most importantly, I Promise to always be your friend, your love and your partner in life

Frank, I love you so much and I’m in awe that we get to do life together.



I really enjoyed the letter my wife wrote to me. When she read it to me, I can feel the emotions that she was trying to express to me along the expression of joy her face. The whole time, It made feel happy and proud to be her husband.

Thoughs – Getting Married

Thoughs – Getting Married

This month, Stef and I have had a serious discussion about marriage. I told her flat-out that I was thinking of doing a romantic proposal, but she did not want any of that. So we ask each other if we want to get married. (btw, she said yes!) The next day, we went down to a jewelry store to get our rings sized. Towards the end at the store, the jeweler suggests trying on different rings. Now, I’ve married in the past and I thought those feelings would be long gone. One of the rings I tried on that the jeweler presented, it had sparked a specific emotion and memory. It was a memory of when I used to look at the ring and reminded of the person you’re with and the cherished memories of that person. Along with the feelings of strength and commitment in my heart. Which has made even happier that we’re getting married though sooner than later. I will write about the Wedding day! My fiancĂ©e family has already welcomed me into the family, and her sister is happy that I will be her Bother-in-law. I’m glad, that I got to know her sister and her family well enough to know that I’m happy they’re going to be in my life as well.

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